tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post5064054389639502963..comments2023-10-30T08:44:45.572-04:00Comments on The Follie Files: the results are intipsymariehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01001979206200298238noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-70226572190656640872007-03-12T17:07:00.000-04:002007-03-12T17:07:00.000-04:00I know someone who suffered a terrible loss late i...I know someone who suffered a terrible loss late in her pregnancy and now that she is pregnant again she just wants to get through it and won't let herself enjoy any of it. It is the way we protect ourselves from so much pain and disappointment. I am so sorry for you. If fertility was fair we would all have babies because we will make the best moms in the world!Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13534236391745808702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-50307185631108577602007-03-12T10:52:00.000-04:002007-03-12T10:52:00.000-04:00I hear you with the injustices of infertility. I a...I hear you with the injustices of infertility. I also want to relax and let it happen, but I guess it's not going to be that simple.<BR/><BR/>Sorry to hear about the chromosome analysis.Baby Blueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09283845137728737575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-62636372935656425962007-03-11T09:14:00.000-04:002007-03-11T09:14:00.000-04:00i feel the same way, and i wish i knew the answer ...i feel the same way, and i wish i knew the answer to your questions. they say infertility always stays with us, but in time i guess it just becomes more normal.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01587725139301198392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-54890616872816773052007-03-10T11:53:00.000-05:002007-03-10T11:53:00.000-05:00Oh, tipsymarie, I know exactly how you feel. IF an...Oh, tipsymarie, I know exactly how you feel. IF and m/c make for an awful combination (both of those on their own are just so horribly dreadful, but combine the two--and the dread grows exponentially...). I thought of the exact same thing after my m/c--innocence lost. The stakes have changed--getting pregnant is no longer what I want--I want to be pregnant, AND carry the baby to term, AND have a healthy baby. As time passed after my m/c, I did get a renewed sense of hope. But now that I am pregnant again, those fears came back to haunt me more than I could imagine. I have tried to change my perspective, but with limited success so far. <BR/><BR/>I don't think there is a "normal" way to deal with any of this. You are dealing in your own way. And I am so sorry that you have to go through this.Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07571206637500986506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-47887025749987154162007-03-10T10:31:00.000-05:002007-03-10T10:31:00.000-05:00This is so sad but a reality I think we all with d...This is so sad but a reality I think we all with deal with the time comes. We're robbed of so many wonderful experiences but hopefully one day we will all healthy, beautiful babies and with time our anxieties will subside.Annshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05561673371099391034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-12953580761734527342007-03-09T19:24:00.000-05:002007-03-09T19:24:00.000-05:00I agree, you said it very well. Thinking of you an...I agree, you said it very well. <BR/><BR/>Thinking of you and your baby girl. It is all so unfair.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-29664302503467900942007-03-09T19:10:00.000-05:002007-03-09T19:10:00.000-05:00Very well said...Very well said...Mama Bearhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07828936673145226848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-17499827327670920442007-03-09T19:02:00.000-05:002007-03-09T19:02:00.000-05:00I agree. Infertility takes away so much more than...I agree. Infertility takes away so much more than just one's abililty to have a child.Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06727918481602930828noreply@blogger.com