tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post8295053374616723290..comments2023-10-30T08:44:45.572-04:00Comments on The Follie Files: So where is your degree in therapy again? Oh, that's right! You don't have one!tipsymariehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01001979206200298238noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-90758019527205204512007-10-11T09:34:00.000-04:002007-10-11T09:34:00.000-04:00i am so, so sorry you had to endure that. i also ...i am so, so sorry you had to endure that. i also got my first snotty comment this week...it wasn't anonymous, but it was quite clear that the person who left the comment hadn't read my whole "story". <BR/><BR/>thinking of you as you get closer to what should have been your baby's due date,<BR/>-lorilltandersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09121516686657529961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-82406236382306909672007-10-09T22:36:00.000-04:002007-10-09T22:36:00.000-04:00that stupid commenter doesn't deserve the time you...that stupid commenter doesn't deserve the time you've spent thinking about her motives. you clearly put yourself out there very honestly in all your posts and i love that.<BR/><BR/>somehow it is kind of a stomp on the heart when a sibling offers to solve our fertility problems (at least it was for me), even if you know it comes from a very good place. anaonymous would have been a much better solution for us too. hopefully you'll never have to make that choice.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01587725139301198392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-15026128702792603542007-10-09T22:07:00.000-04:002007-10-09T22:07:00.000-04:00What the fuck? I can't believe she had the nerve ...What the fuck? I can't believe she had the nerve to say that. <BR/><BR/>I am sorry that this wasn the week you were due. I am thinking of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-5647034941891399692007-10-09T04:00:00.000-04:002007-10-09T04:00:00.000-04:00Don't mind it. Just know that you are being true t...Don't mind it. Just know that you are being true to your emotions. No need to explain it to others. I'm happy for you.Baby Blueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09283845137728737575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-54445026480195764702007-10-08T08:22:00.000-04:002007-10-08T08:22:00.000-04:00Geez... I can say that I have never been as loving...Geez... I can say that I have never been as loving to others having baby showers, so I praise you totally!!! <BR/><BR/>As for Anon, Whatever....<BR/><BR/>Geez... now I feel like a Hateful old Hag!!!! :o)Rebel With.A.Causehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17454291899280028369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-51365202337592953652007-10-08T01:01:00.000-04:002007-10-08T01:01:00.000-04:00LAME! Of course they are always anonymous cowards...LAME! Of course they are always anonymous cowards who leave those kind of ridiculous comments. So sorry they found your blog. And on this week's auspicious milestone nonetheless. Sigh.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you and whoever left that comment has no idea of how good you really are.Ms. Plannerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01409133656377265127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-81253345417698982382007-10-07T22:05:00.000-04:002007-10-07T22:05:00.000-04:00Asanine. No other way to describe that comment. Ev...Asanine. No other way to describe that comment. Everyone grieves differently and she has no authority over what "raises red flags". There is no right or wrong way to grieve.<BR/><BR/>So sorry you had to endure that. Things are hard enough without insensitivity and ignorance.Kristenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03542962726270982824noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-31922659417493174832007-10-07T15:32:00.000-04:002007-10-07T15:32:00.000-04:00Well, I am not licensed, but I do have a PhD in ps...Well, I am not licensed, but I do have a PhD in psychology, and any decent therapist would praise you for what I see as effective coping (i.e., not letting your loss take over your life and your emotions...and for anyone who is doing that, sometimes that is ok, too, especially at first). <BR/><BR/>As for being relieved about not having to deal with the chaos of prepping for a new baby...um, HELLO! Last I checked, that is very stressful. Gee, you were relieved that you weren't being stressed. Go figure. Just because you have been through so much doesn't mean you should naively romanticize all aspects of pregnancy and childrearing. Yeah, it's hard. We are trying hard to get hired for a highly strenuous job (with great benefits).<BR/><BR/>Don't let one judgemental jerk ruin your day.<BR/><BR/>As for egg donations, I have always said, if I had to go that route (knock on wood), I would want an unknown donor just to avoid any awkwardness.Dr. Grumbleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09448780702110352118noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-35399413407372695642007-10-07T13:49:00.000-04:002007-10-07T13:49:00.000-04:00Wow. That's just really uncool. I know we put it ...Wow. That's just really uncool. I know we put it all out there and can be judged for it, but seriously - why write something like that to another human being? Blech.LJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08398924875071245573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-20481765022128588182007-10-07T01:05:00.000-04:002007-10-07T01:05:00.000-04:00Always Anonymous!!!......to pathetic to put a name...Always Anonymous!!!......to pathetic to put a name behind their.....way out of line and crap comment anyway......<BR/><BR/>You just have to feel sorry for this type...Dont you ?...<BR/><BR/>Probably hide behind their PC all day as well....to frightened to leave the screen....<BR/><BR/>Grrrrrrrrrrr...Sitting In Silencehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13156986550139329356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-41369883999732334482007-10-06T21:12:00.000-04:002007-10-06T21:12:00.000-04:00I see that Ms. Anonymous uses the term "a bitter, ...I see that Ms. Anonymous uses the term "a bitter, hateful hag." A coincidence? I think not.<BR/><BR/>Hope she stays away from your (and everyone else's) blog.niobehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08315267454529454063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-59405855281237159992007-10-06T21:01:00.000-04:002007-10-06T21:01:00.000-04:00It sucks that people like that ruin this "safe" pl...It sucks that people like that ruin this "safe" place for us all. I hope she stays away.<BR/><BR/>I'm not sure about your specific reasons for not wanting to use your sister but I had a good friend offer for us and DH and I agreed that anonymous was the better choice for us. You can trust your instincts to know what's best for you.Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13534236391745808702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-89083237313526503152007-10-06T19:31:00.000-04:002007-10-06T19:31:00.000-04:00i think abby is right. i just think that there are...i think abby is right. i just think that there are hateful people who are more likely to be so in an anonymous forum. <BR/>i used to pay attention to the reviews on line for products i was considering purchasing...but then it occurred to me that there were just waaaayyyyy to many people on line with too much time on their hands. <BR/><BR/>and that's the same here. <BR/>there are morons in the world, and apparently one found your blog.The Oneliner (Christina)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03997049405594118170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-40309660519596633142007-10-06T18:19:00.000-04:002007-10-06T18:19:00.000-04:00Seems like there has been a wave of insensitive/ r...Seems like there has been a wave of insensitive/ rude post on a few blogs I read. Of course, they are all anonymous. I wonder if it is the same person?? It is like the people who used to leave comments on the Weight Watchers board saying... I am 98 lbsand 5'5 and looking to lose 15 lbs....They are just looking for a reaction. It is too bad....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882716136668917298.post-22554851651699342052007-10-06T17:50:00.000-04:002007-10-06T17:50:00.000-04:00Ouch.That's plain rude.And I'm sure Google is to b...Ouch.<BR/><BR/>That's plain rude.<BR/><BR/>And I'm sure Google is to blame. Google upsets me daily!<BR/><BR/>JGeohdehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09084396088622931768noreply@blogger.com